Thursday, July 20, 2017

Housemate

Living in a group house with 2 other housemates that were previously shared similar housing situation in another house.

I came home to find 2 of my closets were out of place and one at the verge of collapsing.  I asked one of the housemates Tiblet.  She said no one was here except her, but she didn't do anything to it. 

Few days later, the whole closet just collapsed and the structure that was holding the closet up had fallen on the floor, and was pushed back about a foot from it's original place,  that collided with another closet behind the one that was pushed.  I had to pull the closet out so it could stand on it's own, and away from the clothes that was hanging from the closet behind.  I spent hours trying to put it back together but some of the connectors holding the structure together are broken.  So I sent out a text that someone has to use overwhelming force to push the closet back, there is no other explanation for this. 

So, housemate Tiblet called me to the kitchen, I asked in my usual tone of "what up".  She started screaming and yelling that I don't really understand what she was talking about as she just got to the US as a refugee a few years ago.  She put her hands on both side of her face saying ".....peace, ....home.."  that is all I could make out of what she said.  Then she said she didn't do anything to my closet; I said someone has to push using force, or else this couldn't have happened.  Tiblet then said something about me texting about the cuts on the kitchen counter, which I did, to let housemates know that we have to pay for any damages.  She said she didn't do it.  I said the other housemate Randall doesn't cook, it would only be you and me.  She then accused me of making the cuts.  I said I always use a cutting board.  She said she also used a cutting.  Then starting screaming and yelling again.  I asked her stop yelling, can you just talk?  She didn't, so I just walked away. 

I wanted to say that I sent the text out such whoever was damaging the kitchen counter to STOP, but instead Tiblet accused me of making those cuts; I was taken aback on such brazen accusation and lies.  Also refused to admit she damaged my closet(s).  She wasn't like this in the previous group housing situation.  I don't know what happened to her. Such brazen lies, and then accused me, is not a person of good/moral character would do. 

Action speaks louder then words.

She damaged my 2 closets, make damages to the kitchen countertop, when I pointed all these out, she screamed and yelled at me, and then accused me damaging the kitchen countertop.  This these are actions of a tyrant.

I was a little uneasy with her after she spoke to me harshly of letting Randall, our other housemate to use our bathroom in our last group house; I said you don't denial bathroom access, this is just inhumane, especially this is your housemate.  She harbored resentment toward me since.

I also suspected she was the one that told the neighbors and others that "no one liked her; no one liked her: etc" in our last group housing.  Everyone liked me, including 2 girls from next door, then for some reason, both just shunned me, as well other neighbors, and her countryman from Africa.
  Most prominent of Tiblet's jealousy was last year when we were searching for a place to move, a real-estate agent was her countrymen that kept staring at me, and ignored her when she spoke to the Agent.  Tiblet did not like that at all.  The agent treated me horribly since. 

She also told me that she doesn't like I turned on the fan after she finished cooking.  I said you can turned on the fan, but you didn't.  She also said she doesn't like I sprayed deodorant after she cooked; amount other things that I just turn-out to her.

In short, she is acting like a trailer trash, and I have very little tolerance for any sort of racist, sexist, bigot, hater or trailer-trash. 
 

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